Questions I ask your teen to open a dialogue with him

Yesterday was the parents refuse to post their dialogue; to top their world and young lives, and they put their inhibitions and dams before any question Son departs from the usual fashionable!

 Change the case today. P «dialogue Abu arts education provided mastery style expert of Education and writer at Children's Affairs Dr.« halo Sharon »guide you to the best ways

Always linked to the period of adolescence that begins to enact the 11 manifestations of rejection and rebellion and disobedience, with the desire to keep some secrets, agreed unanimously experts of Education that there is 31% of teenagers living in a state of estrangement with their parents, and that dialogue miss 25% of the educators, and add numbers to 6 % of those teenagers - young and old - are suffering repression and denial of dialogue in the midst of the family and the school, which drives them to violence or abuse.
Questions need to be asked

There are quality of these questions which opens dialogue parents, a son who does not exceed the 12-year-old condition that is built on mutual respect and caution; fear of their children's access to greater awareness of the criticism or warnings at this stage.

* How do you spent your day?
Important question opens the door to dialogue quickly recognize its parents what he has done teenager during the day's activities, and the nature of the places where frequency them, with no notice that the question asked in order to assess his actions, but to notice that the intended question to know whether March active useful, parents can help them develop and meet its requirements.

* Who is the friend who you love and rest him more?

Will help parents to know the quality of friends who Asadeghm the children, in addition to knowledge of their activities and social interests, asking the question also helps to open a dialogue through which to teach teenagers the values ​​of life, and the differences between people, and a good choice.

* What is your opinion on this topic or that?
It is one of the most important questions that need to be asked on adolescents; because it opens the way for dialogue recognize from which parents on the opinion of the son on many issues, it also feels teenager that his importance in the family, which increases the self-confidence when they enter the social life and deal with people.

* Do you keep this program or change the channel?
Question son helps to present his views and ideas, and style Rated to watch, what he likes and what rejected, and why? It is also an opportunity for parents; Learn quality choices Jr. and inclinations, artistic or literary or political, then we can bring books or buy CDs educational; to strengthen what he loves and loves son.