How to think the father and teenage son, and how they viewed each other

Different generations and concepts and a common language between parents and children, especially in adolescence, resulting in many differing views, the father sees that he is right and wants to protect

His son from falling into the errors occurred is probably where before, or they see errors from the point of view, while the son believed that his father's style this wants to  the freedom, or make a duplicate copy of it. Both parties felt that it was right.

 Dr. Nadia Nusseir, psychological and family advisory, tell us how to think the father and teenage son, and how they viewed each other.

's Question points toward the teenager and his parents:

Amaury Personal: My father intervenes in all personal Amory, in all my decisions and my choices under the pretext of lack of experience.

My secrets: I do not understand the meaning of my father's desire to know all my secrets, he wants to listen to my calls Ahasrna my questions about my friends.

Questions investigator: father haunted me questions with talk? Why talk long? Yan stop saying what you have in a minute, is the speaker? No need to prolong the call, because this cost me a lot, and why you lower your voice and speak, and why go away from us?

My friends: The selection of my friends also undergoing controlled and hear words, much like this Born fiddling and other wasting time on trivial things, and this is not a friend of your level.

My clothes: choose my clothes often leads to verbal battles, he wants to wear what you like, I look in front of my friends behind, because what choice does not die to Geely any link.

My time: There is a problem in how to organize my time, my father expected me that I study and study for twenty-four hours without being directed or practicing a sport or meet anyone or watching a program. Every hobby or rest period is considered from the point of view of a waste of time.

Apologize to me: If I explained to my parents attitude and it turns out I'm on the right never apologized to me and does not recognize the error.

Great disaster his pocket money: If you requested an increase in the famous quote says the parents «kajjoun

Lord and I am in your age I did not get only to in today like he does not know the prices of these days.
In the view of Dr. kajjoun that the teenager needs someone to understand the psychological condition, and takes into account the needs of the growth of all aspects of social, psychological, mental, and he needs to father a friend mature answer his questions with understanding and prudence, the father of a friend listen to him until the end without interrupting or ridicule or judgment on his mind .

Valemraehg does not like the authoritarian father, but the discussion and give him the right to say what he wants, and persuaded by the argument and evidence to implement what you want.

 There is nothing wrong with that apologizes parents to their children, it does not  worth or shaking of their personality in front of their children.

The parents should give freedom for a teenager like teach swimming so as not to exceed a certain distance and stand is on the beach to intervene when necessary and do not mind to succeed sons once fail again until fluent swimming in the end. Away from the comparison between him and his brothers or friends;

 Because adolescence differ from another person because of individual differences among adolescents, especially in emotional maturity. Finally, let your logo

Dear Father of friendship and love can build bridges with our children positive adolescents, Fbalhab the make miracles.