Wrong methods to talk with their children

Some wrong methods in the education process, which could affect the functioning and approach to education, so it is essential to know these mistakes, and try to be straightened, especially when you started talking with the children.


And the worst of these errors include:

Urgency, or inconvenience

Parents usually urgency over and over again on their children to do their jobs, or to complete a specific command, which may lead them to a backlash, so feel coming This urgency, Visrvoa is required just the opposite.

Adoption of short responses

Do not children learn than just their answer some responses short that do not contain explanations, and explanations of the subject who are wondering about it, Kabarhm inter (because I said that, I must do so) this error particular, the child must take his time, to learn, and realize the right things , from the bad.

Use tacky style

Children are the most intelligent people, they do not need to use a method, or talk tacky, to communicate information to them, as talking in their own language, or vote, or act in a manner stupid in front of them, they learn how to talk and the disposal of others with each other.

Busy with other things

The kids loved to feel important, and it is important to make them feel so really, so allocate enough time for conversation, and , away from busy with other things while directing talk to them.

Talking too much

Recent studies have shown that human brains can not accommodate more than 5-9 items at a time, which requires parents split orders, and requests they receive on their children, these children can absorb, and listen to what they want.

Use Method guilt

In the event encourage children to pick up their toys, or go out to the store, you should avoid using tones of guilt, because children are not born to empathize, but should teach them, what they should do, as their parents doing.

Threat

The goal of child-rearing does not create a generation to comply with the orders only, for fear of the threat, or passive manner in which parents followed them, which reduces their self-confidence, and destroys their psychology, their personalities, and affect them in the future.